The most important advice to give in keeping a relationship is communication! I can't stress that subject enough. Many people think it's better to bottle up the feelings and wait for things to cool down.
However, I have a much different approach. I feel as though everyone's feelings should be validated in a relationship. I have even taken the liberty to look for other researchers opinions. This might just help in fixing your relationship if you find yourself having problems. Is couples therapy for you?
Not every relationship is perfect. Sometimes people need that extra push to stay together and that's not always a bad thing. People can lack in communication due to fear of their partner not listening or perhaps they have attachment issues in any manner there is always a solution. Sometimes your partner just needs to be reminded that you still care. Even the simple gestures count. A nice dinner, a romantic walk, a simple message saying just how much you care. Relationships are capable when both people put in the effort to make them last.
A few simple tasks can make for a much happier and healthier relationship. Do you do this in your relationship? Another key factor is trust. You need to be able to trust in order to grow and further your relationship.
Yes! I do think what you wrote about is true. I have been with my fiance for about 9 years now and everything in your post is true!
ReplyDeleteI tooooootally agree! Especially with the communication! Me and my boyfriend aren't as far into our relationship, but I try and make him talk to me as much as possible about conflicts and a lot more. It is definitely a key component in a relationship!
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